Community Guidelines

If you’re honest, kind and respectful to others, you’ll always be welcome here.

Welcome to the community

If you’re honest, kind, and respectful to others, you’ll always be welcome here. If you choose not to be, you may not last. Our goal is to allow users to express themselves freely as long as it doesn’t offend others. Everyone is held to the same standard on Discreet Lobby. We’re asking you to be considerate, think before you act, and abide by our community guidelines both on and offline. You heard that right: your offline behavior can lead to the termination of your Discreet Lobby account.
Below is a list of our community policies. If you violate any of these policies, you might be banned from Discreet Lobby.

DISCREET LOBBY is a private platform providing a service for adults who wish to communicate online with other adults, to develop a network of friends and acquaintances for social reasons only.

Do not engage, or encourage others to engage, in any targeted abuse or harassment against any other user. This includes sending any unsolicited sexual content to your matches. Reports of stalking, threats, bullying, or intimidation, are taken very seriously.

Violence and Physical Harm
We do not tolerate violent, graphic, or gory content on Discreet Lobby, or any actions or content that advocate for or threaten violence of any sort, including threatening or promoting terrorism. Physical assault, coercion, and any acts of violence are strictly prohibited.
Content that advocates for or glorifies suicide or self-harm is also not allowed. In these situations, we may take a number of steps to assist the user, including reaching out with crisis resources.

Hate Speech
Any content that promotes, advocates for, or condones racism, bigotry, hatred, or violence against individuals or groups based on factors like (but not limited to) race, ethnicity, religious affiliation, disability, gender, age, national origin, sexual orientation, or gender identity is not allowed.

Private Information
Don’t publicly broadcast any private information, yours or anyone else’s. This includes social security numbers, passports, passwords, financial information or unlisted contact information, such as phone numbers, email addresses, home/work address.

Don’t be fake. Be real instead. Don’t use Discreet Lobby to drive people to external websites via a link or otherwise.

Promotion or Solicitation
Soliciting other users is prohibited on Discreet Lobby. It’s fine to invite your matches to something that you’re doing, but if the purpose of your profile is to advertise your event or business, non-profit, political campaign, contest, or to conduct research, we may delete your account. While we’re excited that you’re doing a comedy show next week, please don’t use Discreet Lobby to promote it.

Prostitution and Trafficking
Promoting or advocating for commercial sexual services, human trafficking or other non-consensual sexual acts is strictly prohibited and will result in your account being banned from Discreet Lobby.

Discreet Lobby has a zero-tolerance policy on predatory behavior of any kind. Anyone attempting to get other users’ private information for fraudulent or illegal activity may be banned. Any user caught sharing their own financial account information (PayPal, Venmo, etc.) for the purpose of receiving money from other users may also be banned from Discreet Lobby.

Be yourself! Don’t pretend to be someone else.
Do not impersonate, or otherwise misrepresent affiliation, connection or association with, any person or entity. This includes parody accounts. While we think your Mike Pence profile is hilarious, you aren’t Mike Pence. And if you are, what are you doing on Discreet Lobby?

You must be 18 years of age or older to use Discreet Lobby. As such, we do not allow images of unaccompanied minors. If you want to post photos of your children, please make sure that you are in the photo as well. If you see a profile that includes an unaccompanied minor, encourages harm to a minor, or depicts a minor in a sexual or suggestive way, please report it immediately.

Copyright and Trademark Infringement
If it’s not yours, don’t post it. If your Discreet Lobby profile includes any work that is copyrighted or trademarked by others, don’t display it, unless you are allowed to do so.

Illegal Usage
Don’t use Discreet Lobby to do anything illegal. If it’s illegal IRL, it’s illegal on Discreet Lobby.

Third Party Apps
The use of any apps created by anyone other than Discreet Lobby that claims to offer our service or unlock special Discreet Lobby features (like auto-swipers) is not allowed.

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